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  • #373781
    Satya
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    Of course, if you want to only, Anita.

     

    #373785
    anita
    Participant

    Dear Priyanka:

    Still Jan 31 here, so Happy 29 Birthday! By “mail id” do you mean email address? (I am very uneducated in all things technological)?

    anita

    #373786
    Satya
    Participant

    Yes. I meant the email address. Thank you so much. I really felt like I’ve found a friend in you, Anita. So I asked for your email address. If you don’t feel comfortable sharing, it’s okay.

    #373787
    anita
    Participant

    Dear Priyanka:

    I do not feel comfortable sharing my email address on any public forum, and I rarely communicate with people via email. The great majority of my online communication with people are right here, in these forums. You and I can communicate here for as long as you want to.

    anita

    #373788
    Satya
    Participant

    That’s okay. I’m glad. Thanks a lot, Anita. Unlike everyone, you’ve been patient and understanding. I appreciate your effort. Thanks.

    #373789
    anita
    Participant

    You are welcome, Priyanka, and thank you for your appreciation. Post again anytime!

    anita

    #373779
    Miriam
    Participant

    Dear Priyanka,

    you are giving this guy too much leeway. He should have told you he was going to marry another woman. He deceived you and now he wants you as a second wife… It doesn’t seem to me he is going to prioritize you ever. If he loved you so much, he should have fought for you. He is not brave enough. My suggestion is go away and if he really wants you, then he will divorce his wife and look for you. He lied to his wife too because he should have told he he was in love with someone else. he deceived her too. I don’t doubt he loves you, but he is not brave enough and you will resent him once the honeymoon is over.

    Happy birthday and find a guy who makes you a queen.

    Miriam

    #373878
    Satya
    Participant

    Thanks Miriam. I am thinking the same way.

    #375881
    anita
    Participant

    Dear Priyanka:

    How are you today, a month and ten days since you posted last?

    anita

    #376360
    Satya
    Participant

    Hi Anita,

    Sorry I couldn’t reply any sooner. I’m doing fine. I can’t say I’m happy but at the same time I’m not sad anymore. I am trying to find myself more. I’m trying to understand myself. I did tell my parents about his marriage. It took me a lot to accept the facts now. That’s why I was able to open up. In the meanwhile, there were phases where my bf kind of opened up to me that I’m making him suffocated. So, I am trying to let go. The last thing I want to do is to make the person I love to feel suffocated. I don’t say I stopped loving him. It’s not possible. But I can’t keep suffering too. So…I’m just trying to be me… I left everything else for destiny now.

    I joined a lot of cultural clubs and enjoying..

    I hope you are good too. I remembered you suddenly and wanted to reply.

    Thanks for checking on me.

    – Satya(Priyanka)

    #376361
    anita
    Participant

    Dear Priyanka:

    I will read your recent post and reply in about 15 hours, maybe sooner.

    anita

    #376366
    anita
    Participant

    Dear Priyanka:

    You are welcome and thank you for posting an update on your situation and state of mind. Good to read that you accept the facts now, and are trying to find yourself/ understand yourself better, and that you are not sad. If posting again will help you find yourself further, understand yourself better- please do post again anytime you want to. I will be glad to read from you and reply whenever you post.

    anita

    #381076
    Satya
    Participant

    Hi Anita,

    It’s been a while. There’s a lot going on around in the world. I hope you are safe and healthy. I’m still trying to figure out what I want from my life. I don’t know if I can call it soul searching. But let’s just say I’m Soul Searching for now. I’ve been taking counselling for a while now. It’s not a drastic improvement. But a little. I might forgive my BF for the betrayal. But I do want to be friends with him. After all, we do have to work together. I did mention him that. Let’s see. He seems a little stressed with work. I took a few days off because of a lot of bad news from my family. Lost my aunt to Covid. Many cousins tested positive but not serious. Just trying to be as sane as possible. I did give a demo class to be an online tutor. There’s that. Felt like I could do a lot more than just the company with my BF. I think now try to refer him to something else than BF. I’m trying new things. And am being open to new opportunities. Let’s see where life takes me. Do write to me sometimes when you are free. Hope you are having a nice day.

    Satya

    #381078
    anita
    Participant

    Dear Satya:

    Good to read from you, it has been a while and a time when the pandemic  in India escalated terribly. Last you posted was March 20, the very day when the number of new cases was 43.8 thousand, and the new deaths on that day were 196. These numbers shot up to a record high of over 414 thousand new cases on May 6, and a record high of 4,525 new deaths in May 18. Good to see that the number of daily cases and daily deaths went down since, but the numbers are still high.  I am sorry to read that your aunt died of Covid. I hope your cousins who tested positive recover. Please do keep yourself as safe possible.

    Thank you for wishing me well- I was vaccinated back in March and it feels good to be vaccinated. I hope you get vaccinated as soon as possible. I hope everyone gets vaccinated, everywhere in the world.

    You wrote that you are doing some soul searching and that you are considering referring to this man “as something else than BF”- tell me more, if you’d like, about your soul-searching and how things are with him now.

    anita

    #381897
    anita
    Participant

    How are you, Priyanka?

    anita

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