So, me and my boyfriend have been together for over two years now and it’s wonderful. However, before I met him, me and my best friend had plans to move in together because she was going through a rough break up and needed me. Long story short, if I now look back on it, she had never been really enthusiastic about me being together with my boyfriend. Whenever I complained about him to her, her advice would be to break up with him. I honestly can’t remember her ever wanting me to work it out or giving me any tips on how to make it work. But that is not the issue of this post.
You know how in theory one thinks that it would be amazing if one’s best friend dated one’s boyfriend’s best friend? I admit, I myself toyed with that thought. The only thing I can say about my boyfriend’s best friend is that I always thought he would be some girl’s dream-come-true-guy. Never had I met a more generous guy. And him and my boyfriend were more like brothers rather than best friends. Anyway, after a party where they both stayed over at me and my boyfriend’s place, they hooked up. It seemed like a one time thing but it grew into something more. As I learned about it, I wasn’t all too happy about it because I didn’t want to eventually pick sides if their relationship came to an end. I also didn’t want my best friend to hurt him. ( She is the kind of person who jumps from guy to another, never single and never really mourning her past relationship).
And at this point, I have no honest idea what happened next…..because whatever happened – my boyfriend’s best friend is not speaking to him at all now. Whenever he made a party, me and my boyfriend were not invited, although our common friends were invited ( is how we learned about those parties to begin with). And when I confronted him about it and asked straight up if we were invited, he said no. So, can anyone here try and figure this out for me? Because I’m truly lost. My own suspicion is that my best friend is to blame for all this.

Note, me and her are not friends anymore.