Well i’m certainly not in my dream lifestyle. But if it wasn’t for being aware of your thoughts relating to what you want your lifestyle to consist of then how would we know how to make it happen? As long as it is what you actually want. Some people get stuck and feel they are never going to get their dream a reality. Sometimes its laziness. Sometimes it is simply because it is not want they truly want, it is just a dream. Realizing what we really really want is sometimes very difficult. I used to think i wanted a family. Wanted to create a family in the opposite way to i was created. But this changed into wanting to explore and experience more in this world and with regards to developing more as an individual, and working out what it is that i want along the way. Some people know what they want from a young age. Some of us don’t cotton on till later in our years. Experience helps a great deal. Sometimes we dream of a certain type of lifestyle and when we make it happen it’s far from how we pictured it. Sometimes what we perceive as far from a dream is actually what we want when we experience it first hand.

So i guess it’s also related to experience. What we learn along the way encourages and develops our perspective relating to what it is that we actually want in this world. Many options, but what are the most important options available that you want??