Somehow besides my work/life problems but there’s still… ‘relationship’ problem? My parents doesn’t allow me to date anyone and since I was small they always told me if I date anyone they’ll chop off my leg. I know they wouldn’t do that but they say it for my safety. They know guys nowadays are messed up. In 2016, after I graduated from secondary school my parents wanted me to work as a waitress because the salary was able to help them to lessen their burden. I worked in a Japanese restaurant. As soon as I walked in, literally half of people there all eyes on me. I was innocent back then. I don’t know what’s the meaning of relationships or society friends. People say, in this world there’s no many true friends but only few. I didn’t know that. I haven’t date before. And I’m not even interested in relationships though. Okay so, my first day of work. What I experienced on that day was there’s two girls who are jealous of me because many guys there liked me. What I always remember is my dad told me not to make enemies in our life. Make friends. Smile. I did. But the Two girls still… they blame me on everything. It’s my first job anyways. I make mistakes. They don’t even teach me. I feel so pissed off. But I still pretend to be happy anyway. Happy until the two evil told my lady boss that I did this and that and she wanted to fire me. I cried. The lady boss give me a week time to improve. She said. I know I did nothing wrong but only accept foods from those workers. (Guys). That is why some dislikes me. Anyways… after I suffered for months. Boss looked up on me, she wanted me to become cashier. From waitress to cashier. But then I know she wasn’t that kind lol. She knows I’m the only one whose so stupid and innocent. Ugh idk how to say this. I’ll skip. Just so, I met a lot of horrible people 🙁 those guys are literally one by one chasing me you know. They treat me so GOOD. And then I told them I can’t date anyone because my parents told so, they don’t believe me. At the end, all of them says I’m a slut, I want guys to like me, I’m a bitch, I date every guy, and they ALL bashed me. Online and in person. Gosh. Out off all of em. There’s a guy he says he liked me from the first. At first he like me because I’m pretty . Then he say after so Long he liked me because I’m kind. He said he’ll wait for me. He really treat me so good lol. I even put a lil bit feelings for him but I told him I can’t date now. I have my own future.  And you know what he say? He said that he’s getting old if he doesn’t date. (He’s 24) and I was like… u taking me for granted? Or because I’m still pretty for you? Sigh… Malays Chinese or even Indians they chase me. I really hate living in my country. Like their mindset is really messed up. Idk what they think. Help. I want to know why every guy treat me like shit after they treat me so good.