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  • November 2, 2017 at 7:55 am #176219
    Mickey
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    Over the last couple weeks i posted about my now ex boyfriend of 5 years told me we connected everywhere but Mentally, and that he felt like i was a puppet of his since we have been together for so long. Now he tells me im perfect i am the perfect women to marry and have a future with, but that he has commitment issues he needs to work on, we are both in college he is 26 with 2 kids and i am 21 with no kids, i dont know if there is another female that he is talking to right now or not but i love him and want to have a future with him but dont know if i should still fight for the relationship, i am willing to but hes making things confussing.

    November 2, 2017 at 5:42 pm #176323
    Eliana
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    Hi Mickey,

    Has he told you he is talking to other women? Or has he given you reasons to distrust him? Although I don’t like his wording about you “being his puppet” not sure what that means, but it sounds disrespectful. You may want to gain a clearer perspective of what he meant by that comment. What he wants from you, where he sees a future with you, and is there any way you can elaborate on his “commitment issues”?

    November 4, 2017 at 6:19 am #176435
    Inky
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    Hi Mickey,

    I can say with authority that no 21 year old college student can, should or even would take on a man with two children who actually thinks he’s smarter than you, admits he thinks you are like a puppet (easy to play with and control, btw) and who you suspect might be talking to another female.

    In other words, what is HE bringing to the table besides baggage, doubt and disrespect?

    I get you have a history with this guy, but it’s time to start creating a new book, chapter and verse with a nice boy who has no dependents, who thinks the world of you and is doting and devoted only to you.

    Please don’t fight for your EX boyfriend. If anything, fight to get away.

    Good Luck,

    Inky

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