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  • October 9, 2014 at 6:30 pm #66171
    Cyd
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    I feel I just want a relationship for company and sex. I know I can get this from a friend but a relationship is more a commitment and I would want to make sure whenever my needs arise that person is there. Besides this, I’m scared I will let them down because I wouldn’t be everything they would want in a relationship. I’m such a asshole because of these needs and how I go about them. A good person is bound to get hurt if they are in a relationship with me. It seems as though I wouldn’t be with them for who they are but instead as an escape from my reality I guess. They would be my drug which would later form an addictive relationship. Anyone get this? It’s so weird the way I think.

    October 10, 2014 at 3:49 am #66177
    Inky
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    Hi Cyd,

    I totally get this. But remember that it is a human, primal need to want to be with someone. We are born for love and connection. Even cavemen ~ up to people a million years in the future ~ would only want someone for companionship and sex if there wasn’t anyone else around! It’s great that you’re very self aware, but don’t use your self awareness to trip yourself up. By the way, good relationships will make you stronger, and a true partner wouldn’t let you get away with you being hurtful or using them.

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