Dear Anita :

I was very snappy, very miserable, I got angry easily and I was possessive. I was isolating myself a lot and my depression and anxiety grew a lot worse.

I braved myself over the weekend and messaged his ex gf to dig out some truth and he is definitely a narcissist and has left a trail of destruction behind him. On that night, I cried, not for him, but for myself, I dont understand how I could invite a person with so much darkness into my life. And now I feel like the past 2 years I wasn’t really in a relationship with a human being, but a character. I don’t hate him, but I feel really sorry for him because he’s such a troubled person. But I know I don’t want to fix him, it’s not my responsibility.