Confused, was it him or was it me?

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August 4, 2019 at 9:28 am #306513

Catherine
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Dear Anita :

I was very snappy, very miserable, I got angry easily and I was possessive. I was isolating myself a lot and my depression and anxiety grew a lot worse.

I braved myself over the weekend and messaged his ex gf to dig out some truth and he is definitely a narcissist and has left a trail of destruction behind him. On that night, I cried, not for him, but for myself, I dont understand how I could invite a person with so much darkness into my life. And now I feel like the past 2 years I wasn’t really in a relationship with a human being, but a character. I don’t hate him, but I feel really sorry for him because he’s such a troubled person. But I know I don’t want to fix him, it’s not my responsibility.

August 4, 2019 at 11:19 am #306533

Mark
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Catherine,

I wish you well in your journey towards healing with increased self-awareness and wisdom.

Mark

August 4, 2019 at 1:07 pm #306543

Anonymous
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Dear Catherine:

You talked with his ex girlfriend, the one who told him to choose between her and his child? If this is the one, then .. well, I don’t know if she fits the Narcissit label, but she is not a decent woman.

Regarding you being “very snappy, very miserable, I got angry easily and I was possessive”- if you exhibited these behaviors with a decent man, then you would need to work on these. But with a man who is not decent, the solution is to not be with him.

I hope to read more from you, anytime you feel like it.

anita
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