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    Luli
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    How to deal with a boyfriend who yells at his girlfriend whenever anything goes wrong or not his way, even when she is sharing her stories about her day? It is sad not feeling comfortable while talking to your partner that you cannot share everything.

     

     

    #269585
    Valora
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    I would first talk to him about how his behavior makes you feel, that you feel like you’re being yelled at a lot and it makes you feel uncomfortable, like you can’t share everything with him. If he yells at you during this discussion or does not take you seriously or does not resolve to try to catch himself when he does it and stop doing it (don’t expect a blunt change because it’s probably habit, but habits can be broken over time), then I would seriously reevaluate whether you truly want to stay with this man or not. It’s no fun to be constantly yelled at, and I’m guessing you wouldn’t want to keep going through this for the rest of your life, so if the behavior is talked about and still continues regularly, then the relationship is likely going nowhere good, unfortunately.

    #269597
    Valora
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    I should also add on that if he is having a really difficult time over personal issues in his life that this behavior may be a result of, I would factor that in, too. Definitely still talk to him about how this makes you feel, but if it’s something that would likely stop altogether once his personal issues resolve, that’s something to factor in if you reevaluate the relationship, but also, in that case, he should also get counseling or possibly some sort of help to resolve the personal issues faster, depending on what they are and if he has any.

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