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    Kaitlyn
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    I struggle with a poor self image . And I think this really is burden to me and its causing me to not be able to move forward 🙁 Since I was young I was a fat little kid and have been that way till I was 15 . Then my relatives started telling me I was chubby (not in a bad way they were nice ) and when I went to a new school I was being teased for being fat and called nicknames etc . Because I was really quite obese back then , I decided to lose weight and I lost weight quite rapidly . Now Im quite slim and in a healthy weight range . However after I lost weight , people no longer told me that I was fat or made fun of me and actually called me pretty . I was very flattered back when that happened but I think now it has caused me some trust issues and being overly obsessed with my image . I think I was just confused with how quickly they transitioned from calling me fat to pretty and I felt they might be lying . Now sometimes I still think im fat and I want to become slimmer but I still have problems with that because sometimes I think I still perceive myself as that fat girl . I really want to be able to not fear being judged anymore and experience and love fully .

    #50906
    rashi
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    Hey Kaitlyn, I think you just need to stop judjing yourself. Introspect a little what is troubling you more, is it how people around you percieve you or how you percieve yourself. Start loving yourself a little more dear , please don’t be so harsh and critical about yourself. We all go through such phases in our lives now and then. The key is to hold on and save self from getting lost in the mist of self doubt. Accept yourself as you are, the moment this acceptance comes you will see the fear fade away. If possible pray everyday or may be spend some time in silence with yourself, trust me it helps…God bless you!!!

    #51028
    Kaitlyn
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    Thank u Rashi for the reply !! I was feeling very lost and helpless the past few days and I guess ur answrr was the light that will guide me towards the right path. I never really thought that I was being harsh on myself and sometimes im afraid that people are just perceiving me in a better light than I actually am . I guess what I have to work on is my perception of myself .

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