Why is it so that we fall in love with a person and for some reason when that person goes away from our life we embrace a pain for life time.Falling in love with some one is just not dependent on two persons involved, rather it depends on the time as well. With time people may change and life can drift from expectations. This is rule of life that it keeps changing.

We should also fall in love with memories of the time and not just with the person alone.I would like to share a story I just read and decided to share in tinybuddha.
http://upsohigh.com/in-love-with-memories/

“Don’t cry because it is over , smile because it happened”