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    Ok ex co worker now. We had I would say a great connection at work, she’s from the other end of the world, work visa expired so has to go back home near Japan. Her last day she had cookies for a bunch of the co workers, mostly she wrote she was happy to work with them, etc. Mine said I was a good good friend and she liked playing with me. She was off work for a while and kept saying bye to everyone, she wanted to have her lunch with me and brought her chair close to me and was eating her food. We flirt like crazy so people think we are into each other. Anyway Got up after my coffee and left to go grocery shopping, she was saying bye to everyone. She saw me heading out with my bike, so she followed me and we walked in the parking lot, she was taking pictures of the workplace and me, filming the workplace (and me), telling me a couple times she will miss me, and me her. We started walking together away from work down the street, she was talking fast like she was nervous, telling me she will miss me again and we hugged again, at the end of the street we stood there talking and I eventually went on my way home. Anyway I get her on social media (she wanted me to), we talked on there a little…didn’t talk for a few days and I get a message saying she’s starting to miss me and she’s sad but happy she met me and if she can wants to see me again before she goes (doubt it, she’s traveling the country before she heads back home, first time here and is emotional). At work we did like a lot of touching, like tickling, hand on hand, her arm around my arm, poking, etc. When we didn’t talk for a few days she saw a co worker and said she was missing everyone and dropped my name, so he told her to tell me she misses me which is why she text she’s starting to miss me.

    Anyway obviously it wont be a thing as she’s going back to the other side of the world and we will never see each other again or talk, just wanted to post about it.

    #450029
    anita
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    me- so good to read from you again! Not focused now, Sat night, will get back to you Sun.

    🌿 Anita

    #450030
    me
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    You too Anita. I wont be pursuing contact with the woman, just wanted to share a story.

    #450031
    anita
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    It’s okay. me- for you to continue to shar3 your story. I’m just glad to hear back from you. The first time we talked was years ago.. When was it? 7, 8 years ago? Longer?

    #450032
    me
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    9 I think? I don’t even miss that original woman lmao. What a mistake she turned out to be.

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