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  • October 29, 2025 at 10:06 am #451353
    anita
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    Good morning, me!

    This piece of information makes a difference. I thought he was flying 3 hours each way just so to see her, leading me to think it was a more than friends interest. How do you feel about everything at this point?

    October 29, 2025 at 10:12 am #451360
    me
    Participant

    I’m fine, sick at work and stressing out about more important stuff.

    October 29, 2025 at 10:16 am #451361
    anita
    Participant

    You’re physically sick..? Wonder what’s the more important stuff..

    October 29, 2025 at 10:18 am #451362
    anita
    Participant

    .. Or you meant sick of work?

    October 29, 2025 at 10:38 am #451365
    me
    Participant

    Cold sick for a few days. Other stuff is, well I can’t say here but it’s effecting my life completely.

    October 29, 2025 at 10:41 am #451366
    anita
    Participant

    Sorry you’re sick. Could be caused by stress, at least partly. Start a new thread about the other stuff, or is it confidential, private?

    October 29, 2025 at 10:59 am #451368
    me
    Participant

    Private yeah but everyone at work is pissed what’s happening to me.

    October 29, 2025 at 11:11 am #451369
    anita
    Participant

    Pissed at the private stuff that’s happening to you (not about the coworker issue)..?

    October 29, 2025 at 11:23 am #451371
    me
    Participant

    Yup.

    October 29, 2025 at 11:34 am #451374
    anita
    Participant

    Sounds like something unjust, that you were the victim of something wrong that was done to you 😢

    October 29, 2025 at 12:04 pm #451375
    me
    Participant

    Yup probably why I’m acting the way I am in here lately.

    October 29, 2025 at 12:35 pm #451378
    anita
    Participant

    Yes, if me is not the happy-go-lucky guy at work.. something is wrong. I hope that the problem gets resolved somehow..

    October 29, 2025 at 9:48 pm #451388
    me
    Participant

    Think it will soon.

    Anyway one of the girl bosses at my work that still talks to the Taiwan girl was saying “Is this a love story?” With the biggest smile on her face like she was interested in hearing, I’m like “naw she’s too far away”. Was telling her what happened between us from the “Come home with me” twice on her last day to her nervousness about to leave me to her “I’m starting to miss you” text and the other about wanting to see me. I’m on a social media break for a while so when I get back I’ll try talking to her normally without being open and stuff like before.

    Until I see her that is…..man I’m such an idiot for not taking advantage of that “hope to see you soon” text. laugh out loud totally thought it was meaning everyone at work.

    October 30, 2025 at 6:11 am #451391
    anita
    Participant

    Dear me:

    “Think it will soon.”- I hope so 🤞

    “Anyway one of the girl bosses at my work that still talks to the Taiwan girl was saying ‘Is this a love story?’… man I’m such an idiot for not taking advantage of that ‘hope to see you soon’ text. laugh out loud totally thought it was meaning everyone at work.”-

    Talking about “a love story” and being “such an idiot”, this song comes to mind (by Frankie Lymon and The Teenagers, 1956):

    “Ooh-wah, ooh-wah, ooh-wah
    Ooh-wah, ooh-wah, ooh-wah
    Why do fools fall in love?…

    Love is a losing game
    And love can be a shame
    I know of a fool you see, for that fool is me…

    Why does my heart skip a crazy beat?
    ‘Fore I know it will reach defeat
    Tell me why, why, why
    Tell me why
    Why do fools fall in love?”

    And this song (by The Main Ingredient, 1972):

    “Everybody plays the fool sometime
    There’s no exception to the rule
    It may be factual, may be cruel
    I ain’t lyin’, everybody plays the fool”-

    So.. You are not alone, me 😊

    Anita

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