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November 30, 2025 at 10:06 am #452384
meParticipantIt was midnight, she was about to head to bed but stayed up and we just talked about work here , over there and wants me to send her nature pics because she loves nature. Also if I’m going to move to Taiwan, and some other things. She was totally shy sounding and giggling, but English not her first language and she was tired. Did not ask to do it again but I’ll text her it later.
November 30, 2025 at 10:15 am #452385
meParticipantWait we did talk about more calls…she said she may put her number on WhatsApp so our other calls won’t have a delay.
November 30, 2025 at 11:12 am #452387
anitaParticipantDear me: Well, that’s a positive report and future calls to be looking forward to 🙂
You say she was “totally shy sounding and giggling”. I am guessing you weren’t giggling.. but were you shy too, or should I say nervous during the call?
November 30, 2025 at 12:17 pm #452388
meParticipantLol naw I was all talk. I was really excited to talk to her, no nervousness. Just saw the co worker I like here too, all talk again with a little flirtatiousness.
November 30, 2025 at 1:12 pm #452394
anitaParticipant“A little flirtatiousness”- I suppose they find you attractive, me 🙂
November 30, 2025 at 1:49 pm #452396
meParticipantMaybe but I just enjoy talking to them.
November 30, 2025 at 9:57 pm #452404
anitaParticipantEnjoy is good, Me.. as long as they enjoy it too..
December 2, 2025 at 7:11 pm #452489
meParticipantI’m assuming they do because they all feel welcoming.
Anyway we are going to be using WhatsApp from now on, better quality she said. She said we can also use WhatsApp, so I guess we will do both. No clue when we will talk again, hopefully soon.
I was freaking out a bit thinking she got charged for the phone call, but I think she was trolling me and said she didn’t get charged she’s sure, but still offered to pay because I’ll feel bad.
December 2, 2025 at 8:18 pm #452494
anitaParticipant.. WhatsApp IS free, as far as I know.. No charge at all since I’ve used it internationally.
Before What’s App, buying minutes.. it was multiple hours for 20 dollars… inexpensive, but not zero charge like WhatsApp.
December 3, 2025 at 9:08 pm #452545
meParticipantYeah it’s free.
Noticed she’s slowed way down on texting me back since the phone call. Like when I open up to her, she kinda stops reading my messages I told you about. Just asked her if she wants to talk again next week, and if she likes phone calls so I can see when I can ask her.
December 4, 2025 at 9:35 am #452567
anitaParticipantI’ll get back to you in the evening, me.
December 4, 2025 at 12:51 pm #452575
meParticipantSure thing. Anyway she said yes to talking next week and we can talk anytime we have time. So I guess whenever I want assuming both have the time.
December 4, 2025 at 3:06 pm #452576
anitaParticipantWhat if you ask her (in a curious, light-hearted kind of way) why she kid of stops reading your messages? As is, seems like you are getting mixed messages from her?
December 4, 2025 at 5:14 pm #452581
meParticipantNaw I’m not gonna bother her with that stuff, we were just co workers. I’ll just see what happens as I was reading it’s normal for texts to die off after a first phone call if the girl is shy. She did ask me if I’m going to move to Taiwan, assuming she was hoping.
December 4, 2025 at 7:24 pm #452588
anitaParticipantI just wish you no longer have to guess about her feelings and what she wants, me.. I just wish you knew what it was she’s feeling and hoping for.
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