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  • #452384
    me
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    It was midnight, she was about to head to bed but stayed up and we just talked about work here , over there and wants me to send her nature pics because she loves nature. Also if I’m going to move to Taiwan, and some other things. She was totally shy sounding and giggling, but English not her first language and she was tired. Did not ask to do it again but I’ll text her it later.

    #452385
    me
    Participant

    Wait we did talk about more calls…she said she may put her number on WhatsApp so our other calls won’t have a delay.

    #452387
    anita
    Participant

    Dear me: Well, that’s a positive report and future calls to be looking forward to 🙂

    You say she was “totally shy sounding and giggling”. I am guessing you weren’t giggling.. but were you shy too, or should I say nervous during the call?

    #452388
    me
    Participant

    Lol naw I was all talk. I was really excited to talk to her, no nervousness. Just saw the co worker I like here too, all talk again with a little flirtatiousness.

    #452394
    anita
    Participant

    “A little flirtatiousness”- I suppose they find you attractive, me 🙂

    #452396
    me
    Participant

    Maybe but I just enjoy talking to them.

    #452404
    anita
    Participant

    Enjoy is good, Me.. as long as they enjoy it too..

    #452489
    me
    Participant

    I’m assuming they do because they all feel welcoming.

    Anyway we are going to be using WhatsApp from now on, better quality she said. She said we can also use WhatsApp, so I guess we will do both. No clue when we will talk again, hopefully soon.

    I was freaking out a bit thinking she got charged for the phone call, but I think she was trolling me and said she didn’t get charged she’s sure, but still offered to pay because I’ll feel bad.

    #452494
    anita
    Participant

    .. WhatsApp IS free, as far as I know.. No charge at all since I’ve used it internationally.

    Before What’s App, buying minutes.. it was multiple hours for 20 dollars… inexpensive, but not zero charge like WhatsApp.

    #452545
    me
    Participant

    Yeah it’s free.

    Noticed she’s slowed way down on texting me back since the phone call. Like when I open up to her, she kinda stops reading my messages I told you about. Just asked her if she wants to talk again next week, and if she likes phone calls so I can see when I can ask her.

    #452567
    anita
    Participant

    I’ll get back to you in the evening, me.

    #452575
    me
    Participant

    Sure thing. Anyway she said yes to talking next week and we can talk anytime we have time. So I guess whenever I want assuming both have the time.

    #452576
    anita
    Participant

    What if you ask her (in a curious, light-hearted kind of way) why she kid of stops reading your messages? As is, seems like you are getting mixed messages from her?

    #452581
    me
    Participant

    Naw I’m not gonna bother her with that stuff, we were just co workers. I’ll just see what happens as I was reading it’s normal for texts to die off after a first phone call if the girl is shy. She did ask me if I’m going to move to Taiwan, assuming she was hoping.

    #452588
    anita
    Participant

    I just wish you no longer have to guess about her feelings and what she wants, me.. I just wish you knew what it was she’s feeling and hoping for.

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