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  • December 8, 2025 at 4:06 pm #452760
    me
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    Sounds like a plan, I’ll do it! Thanks.

    Meanwhile still texting and talking to the other girl…she’s been MIA for 2 days, told her to text me the jobs she’s going for or got, then said nvm we will talk about it on the phone.

    Anyway adios! Working my other job now. My Thailand buddy showing me videos and reels of his trip so far, I’ll have to join him next time.

    December 8, 2025 at 5:19 pm #452763
    anita
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    Dear me: You are very welcome! So, it’s adios for this thread… I am looking forward to a new thread.

    Take care, me, I am missing you already 😊

    🤍 Anita

    December 29, 2025 at 11:49 am #453523
    me
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    Sorry to bump this but…I ended our friendship today after I woke up. Things drastically changed so quickly and I was unhappy. Told her, and gave her a text saying if she wants me to get lost I will, she never messaged me back but looked at it so that to me is a firm “get lost” so I text again and said I took her silence as a “get lost” and said I don’t have hard feelings about this against her and wished her well. Looked but never responded so blocked her.

    That’s that, I refuse to have another situation like the other girl and this one is too far away. SEEYA!!

    December 29, 2025 at 11:57 am #453524
    me
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    Oh right after I left this thread we talked for 70 minutes. We were going to talk about her recent trip but this happened.

    Anyway see ya.

    December 29, 2025 at 12:12 pm #453527
    anita
    Participant

    Oh, sorry, me!

    I wouldn’t know why she acted the way you described, going from a 70 min talk to avoiding you when you needed readsurance.

    I would have reacted like you did, nobody wants to be mistreated. We need consistency from others, not the hot and cold treatment.

    Anita

    December 29, 2025 at 12:39 pm #453533
    me
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    Didn’t really avoid me but started big time distancing herself. Like we would text a lot for example to a dry text a day sort of thing and I could not say anything so had enough of it and said goodbye. I don’t really need to explain my actions to her, just enjoy the ride then get off when it’s over to the next person. People here did warn me about her anyway and my gut was screaming at me to go away.

    December 29, 2025 at 12:41 pm #453534
    anita
    Participant

    I’ll answer in a little while

    December 29, 2025 at 1:44 pm #453538
    anita
    Participant

    What’s a “dry text” 🤔 vs a.. wet text?

    December 29, 2025 at 2:53 pm #453541
    me
    Participant

    Wet text is like sexual talking (like how I talk IRL), dry is like a few words leading to nothing. I’m sure it took her by surprise but I did tell her our texting has dried up since we started talking on the phone.

    December 29, 2025 at 3:39 pm #453542
    anita
    Participant

    Dear me:

    I get confused sometimes , not knowing if she’s being cold to you, let’s say on text, or it’s just that the two of you talked on the phone a lot the day before, and she just needed a break (as everyone does), and didn’t feel the need to engage in text the next day.

    Maybe she was busy.. and you are very sensitive to any sign of rejection that may not at all be rejection..?

    December 29, 2025 at 4:02 pm #453544
    me
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    Maybe but people at work all think it’s a good thing it’s over because she’s all the way in Taiwan now. I’m glad it’s over, I’m sure she’s glad it’s over because she never replied anymore. I’ll be fine, been through worse. No more girls for a while though, probably a long while.

    December 29, 2025 at 4:13 pm #453545
    anita
    Participant

    Of course, you have a valid point, that she’s all the way in Taiwan.

    No more girls for a long while, you say.

    How 🤔 about online dating (of local women), no dating but just talking to local- enough women who are interested in a serious relationship.. Just talking, checking compatibility before meeting for the first time?

    Later, when you’re ready.

    (I think we talked about online dating, but I forgot how you feel about it.

    ✨️ Anita

    December 29, 2025 at 4:33 pm #453548
    me
    Participant

    I think I should try talking to them in person instead, unless I am out traveling then online can be a thing.

    Anyway only bumped thread to tell you news of this girl being over. I barely talk to the other girl at my work now.

    December 29, 2025 at 4:43 pm #453549
    anita
    Participant

    Thank you for updating me, me (meme, ha-ha).

    How was your Christmas? I didn’t celebrate at all. I remember that years ago you handed people 🍬 , in a shopping mall.

    Here, I am getting over a cold (I hope). Didn’t go on my daily walk. Do you still exercise?

    😨 Anita

    December 29, 2025 at 5:05 pm #453550
    anita
    Participant

    Correction: Candy cane’s, not just any candy

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