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September 24, 2025 at 10:09 am #450157
anita
ParticipantDear me:
I didn’t know that you are “pretty sure she only said that because she was emotional at the time and it was an “in the moment” kind of thing.”- what you described earlier was not just a moment that she was sad about leaving, it was many moments, at different times.
You don’t trust the idea that someone may really like you.. beyond a fleeting moment? (the idea of it makes me 😔)
🤍🌿 Anita
September 24, 2025 at 6:02 pm #450182me
ParticipantApparently I was wrong about things. Talked to the guy that saw her at work, he told her we talked about her yesterday (at the time) and she said “that’s so cute!”, then she text me she was starting to miss me and sad but happy she met me and wants to see me again soon. I mean it still means the same thing basically, she still text me that after she saw him and was thinking about me enough to say that, most people would just say that’s cute and carry on their way, not start becoming emotional. Told him I think she likes me because she kept wanting to be around me and telling me to come home with her, he was frusterated about work so I let him vent without me talking, he said thanks and “I can see why she would like you”.
I just feel weird when people seem to like me. It feels good when I get a text of someone I like saying “I miss you”, or that they are sad about not seeing me anymore and wanna see me again like her text showed. Yeah true, it was many moments. We had pretty damn good fun, and lots of laughs. She hates it where she lives because all everyone does is work everyday 13-14 hours a day instead of have fun.
September 24, 2025 at 7:37 pm #450189anita
ParticipantDear me:
You will have to accept the fact (says I) that you are likeable! Not by everyone at all times (no one is)-
But truly, me- you ARE likeable. I like you- here, and she likes you- where she’s at, irl.
🤍🌿 Anita
September 24, 2025 at 11:20 pm #450198me
ParticipantWell, by the 2nd day of my 2nd job I have (I work 7 days a week almost 60 hours except lately), a new really cute girl was hired and we got along really really well from the start too, but she’s married with her husband stuck in India. We liked to roleplay at the job, she said we are like family and said I was handsome, but didn’t say that about the other dude lol. There is always…another girl when it comes to me. So if this Taiwan one doesn’t work out there will always be more because I always hit on women, even if it gets me in trouble (and it has). But I haven’t been at that job in a couple weeks, scheduling keeps getting messed up. Anyway I’ll message the Taiwan girl tomorrow, ask her when she will come back here because I miss her and wanna meet her (like she told me). I’ll find out if she likes me or not the way I think she does.
September 25, 2025 at 10:25 am #450220anita
ParticipantWow, me! You are working many, many hours a day.. and every day, normally. You are a very hard worker. How do you manage to do that?
Not a good idea to flirt with, or hit on a married woman, me.. if that’s what you’re doing?
“So if this Taiwan one doesn’t work out there will always be more because I always hit on women..”- It’d make me happy if I read from you one day that after hitting on (or being hit by) a woman 😊, you actually have a healthy, ongoing relationship with just one. What do you think of this idea (a relationship)?
🤍🌿 Anita
September 25, 2025 at 3:46 pm #450238me
ParticipantI like working and I got freak energy so I can easily deal with it for a while until I crash hard. Maybe from lack of sleep? I dunno. I know it’s not a good idea to hit on married women, but I would not have sex with them or anything.
As for the other girl…messaged her this morning “Hey, when you coming back? I wanna see you soon ;)” Been online several times, not read my message. Not much of a texter but maybe she’s cutting me loose since she’s moving back home. Would not blame her. A buddy at work I told about our interactions and what happened and the text says she’s so into you.
September 25, 2025 at 7:06 pm #450239anita
ParticipantIt just occurred to me, Me, that you are a man of extremes, ME (your screen name)= extreME.
Could be 🍷talking…
🥴Anita
September 25, 2025 at 9:03 pm #450241me
ParticipantYes I am, not why I named myself that but people know me for my extremes.
September 25, 2025 at 9:11 pm #450242anita
ParticipantI get it, me- and I happen to like you- just as you are!
September 25, 2025 at 11:50 pm #450253me
Participant“Hey, when you coming back? I still wanna seeya soon. ;)”
“Hahahah I did check flights, they are so expensive!”
“Lol yeah, Canada airlines trying to keep us apart 😏 Anyway wish you all the best and thanks for the cookie. Peace out!”September 25, 2025 at 11:53 pm #450254me
ParticipantI got too much stuff to do and I refuse to get worked up about another friggin girl.
September 26, 2025 at 1:37 pm #450357anita
ParticipantI ran out of time, will reply by tomorrow, take care, me!
September 26, 2025 at 2:07 pm #450361me
ParticipantIt’s cool, this was basically our convo.
me: “Hey, when you coming back? I still wanna seeya soon. ;)”
her: “Hahahah I did check flights, they are so expensive!”
me: “Lol yeah, Canada airlines trying to keep us apart 😏 Anyway wish you all the best and thanks for the cookie. Peace out!”
her: “Noo hahaha. How about come and travel”
me: “Haha careful, I might actually show up 😏 frfr though, I probably liked you a little more then I should have knowing we would be a million miles apart. Guess that’s what happens when someone’s as fun as you but I got a bunch of stuff going on here “
September 27, 2025 at 10:09 am #450378anita
ParticipantWow, me, I am IMPRESSED!
Impressed by how honest and direct you were in the last few lines. You covered everything: she’s far away, you have a lot going on where you’re at, and you liked her very much (that’s how I read it) when she was there with you.
You said everything in only a few sentences.
how did she respond???
🤍🌿 Anita
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