Dear me:

I’m not absolutely sure that I understand: “Direct? No, backs off. Open? No, backs off. Playful? Welcomes it”- you mean that you were direct and open with her, and when you were, she backed off, and the only times she didn’t back off was when you were playful..?

Seems like she has a commitment problem perhaps or she’s uncomfortable with real intimacy..?

Not that I think that you’re interested in analyzing her 😊

🤍🌿 Anita

I didn’t know that.. now I do. I thought that you were the backing off guy (the push and pull I referred to earlier) and that she was the ..pull-only person, meaning that she wasn’t doing the pushing/ backing off part.

maybe you both do the push-pull thing.. at different times?

You really do like her.. and I still think that she likes you. I wish the physical distance didn’t exist for you right now.

About to leave for the rest of the day (raining cats and dogs here)