Yes, I would cancel the trip if I was you because she’s been ignoring you lately AND she’s about to spend time with another guy in Montreal. My hope for romance between you and her has expired tonight 🙁

“Oh you know me.”, meaning..?

Oh, yes, always looking but never committed, as in one foot in, one foot out, hedging your bets (trying to avoid risk by not choosing fully), the push-pull thing I mentioned before.

All this is as far as I know. I may be wrong..?

Yes, you didn’t take your shot with her, so she gave up on you and became available for someone willing to travel across the country to see her. Right?

Dear me:

Well, they may be hanging out as friends. I wonder if he’ll text you while there, or share stories on Instagram or whatnot.

..But if she is looking to immigrate to Canada, marrying a Canadian citizen would be an attraction for her.. So, she may be interested in being more than friends..?

Free Spirit me (meaning you.. me). I like you just the way you are, just the way I got to know you over the years- the bee’s knees! 🙂

Dear me:

I don’t know.. No doubt she really liked you, maybe still likes you.. but got double messages from you (the pull-push thing).

Oh.. You like me too, this is precious.. Mother/ son like. I like that!

🌿 Anita