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First meeting in ldr .. delima about my weight

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  • #212165

    Ramnarayan
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    Hi friends ..

    I met a girl on dating app seven months ago.. we talk daily .. be both from india .. I love her so much.. she dnt fell the same for me..But she like me..

    Now we are planning to meet on 17 June .. I am felling nervous about my look about my weight .. I am too skinny I am 23 year guy and my weight is 55 kg .. she is also 23 year old but her weight is 80+ .. I am felling nervous about my weight .. does she like me after seeing me in bones ?

    Does weight matter ? How to be confident ? She is very big then me ? I told her I am skinny but she says it's not matter .. we chat on video also but she never see me fully ..

    I am worrying .. does weight affect  ?

    If we do sex then what is role of weight in sex ?

    Please friends suggest me .. am waiting for your honest suggestions..

     

    #212171

    anita
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    Dear Ramnayaran:

    Maybe she likes skinny men. It is a matter of personal preference. The fact that she is significantly heavier than you does not mean that she prefers a heavier man. She may prefer a skinny man.

    It is a matter of personal preference. You don't like being skinny, she may like it.

    Because you are worried about your weight in the context of possible physical intimacy, it would probably be a good idea to be intimate, if you will, in very dim light, or in almost darkness. That will take care of this particular fear on your part, won't it?

    anita

    #212175

    Ramnarayan
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    Anita

    She said me many times that you are so skinny ..But now she say that I want to meet you at once ..

    When she see me in this situation what is possibility that she will still like me ?

    She say weight doesn't matter so much but I think our weight difference is nearly 30 kg ,

    What do you think does weight matter in broad way ?

    #212177

    anita
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    Dear Ramnarayan:

    I think that weight matters mostly as an issue of physical health: too much of it is unhealthy and too little is unhealthy as well. There is a range of healthy weight for each individual depending on height and other factors. Following the issue of health there is the issue of personal comfort or lack of comfort, physical comfort and emotional comfort.

    And comfort is part of one's emotional/ physical health as well.

    Are you wondering about the affect of weight on sexual performance?

    anita

    #212179

    Ramnarayan
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    Anita

    Yes am wondering about the affect of weight in sexual performance ..

    Does it affects our sexual performance ?

    I am healthy .. but I am skinny

    #212181

    anita
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    Dear Ramnarayan:

    Healthy and skinny is helpful as far as any physical performance is involved, including sexual. I think you are in good shape in this regard, that is, being skinny and healthy is a plus for you, when it comes to sexual performance.

    anita

    #212189

    Ramnarayan
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    Anita

    Thanks for your kind suggestions

    Tell me please should I go to meet her once ?

    #212191

    anita
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    Dear Ramnarayan:

    You are welcome. I didn't understand your question, can you restate it clearly?

    anita

    #212203

    Ramnarayan
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    Anita

    Iam saying should I meet to her ?

    #212209

    anita
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    Dear Ramnarayan:

    I remember you shared about her in your previous thread. What I remember is that this is not a promising relationship at this point, a maybe kind of a thing, very maybe. And I remember that you shared that she and an ex boyfriend got together recently, following the ending of their relationship so to satisfy their cravings, you wrote. She may still be meeting with him for that purpose.

    What I would do, if I was you, would be to meet her in a public place so that an intimate contact is not possible. Meet her to talk, that is all. Talk, ask her questions so to understand her better.

    anita

     

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