My relationship is 3 years, we love each other. Kisses, cuddles, we do things for each other. But what’s missing is the sexual side of our relationship. I think he is atrractive and it’s been so long now I doubt it will return. He’s not interested in other women but because of a head injury , he said the urge is not there. Im really scared that it’s me and he’s not being truthful. He does everything for me, I couldn’t ask for more and I feel totally loved. But I’m afraid he will leave me and everyday I feel like I’m not meeting a need he has.  Actually I feel like a failure as a woman.