My bf of almost 3 months broke up with me last night because i went out with one of my friends. He’s made it clear that he doesn’t like them, but he’s also never made an effort to get to know them. At first he didn’t want me to hangout with them at all, but over the weeks he has been trying to make an effort in giving me some time with them even though i feel i haven’t really needed it. Last week my friends were throwing a birthday dinner for one of my other friends. I declined for other personal reasons, nothing to do with my bf. So i told him i wanted to go hangout with my friend separately for his birthday. He seemed fine with it and even went to the store for me to get him a gift. I know he doesn’t like my friend for my past reasons and for what i think is another dumb reason. Either way, he knew i was planning on going this week and i thought it was ok because we have been communicating more and more each day and he made me feel like he wasn’t trying to be so selfish with my time, just as my friends had been. I told him yesterday over texts that i was going to go hangout with my friend and since i had text him that, he began ignoring me. He replied when i told him to have a good lunch, but other then that he ignored my i miss you, so i decided to let him be. I messaged him when i got off work letting him know where me and my friend were going to be and he told me he was irritated and not to text him the rest of the night. Usually, he tells me to get home safe after work, but he didn’t. This drove me crazy and i didn’t understand why he was ignoring me for this. We had talked about things and we said we were going to try not to get mad about things like this, but he was so upset. I know i should have just left him alone and let it blow over, but i knew he didn’t want me to go and he couldn’t have just told me. He just ignored me and i didn’t like it because i told him a prior ex used to do it to me. I left him alone after he told me to stop texting him until i had got home. I made it simple “I’m just got home. I hope you got home safe and get some rest. I really do love you” along with a song. Then he said leave me alone so i replied “Just know that i love you and still want to be with you and i hope you feel the same way too. Good night.” then it went from there and he said he didn’t and basically said i chose my friend and that i caused the breakup. He wouldn’t answer my calls and didnt let me go over to talk. I wasnt trying to be dramatic, i just wanted to talk.  Then he went on to tell me he told me that he was irritated and to leave him alone. I dont want to break up for this reason and know i dont deserve to be treated like this. Now I just feel confused because he was making things seem like it was ok to go, but when it came down to it he wasn’t happy. I want to work on our relationship like we had and I  dont want to lose him. I havent messaged or called him since last night, but im dying inside to and i dont want to make things worse. Any advise please, i don’t  know what to do at this point to make things better or work things out because he wants nothing to do with me. I know i should have left him alone but i told him about my past. I dont feel respected and i feel i should have respected him.