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    Indy
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    My boyfriend told me he finds his female friend attractive. I didn’t even ask him. I asked him if they ever dated and he said no because it was long distance. However, now I can’t help but feel like she would have been his first choice had it not been for the geographical issue. When I asked him why he told me he answered “I’m being honest! What, you want me to lie??” This ended in a huge argument in which I almost left. Honestly if this were an isolated insistent it would be one thing but I’m constantly having to tell him things like “I’m not ok with you messaging the girl who used to be your **** buddy.” Or “if a girl Talks to you about her boobs and flashes you she is not my friend and you should avoid hanging out with her.” Idk what to do anymore. I feel like he has the emotional intelligence of an ant. Thoughts?

    • This topic was modified 2 months ago by tinybuddha.
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    anita
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    Dear Indy:

    A combination of a young man’s intense sexual energy and an “emotional intelligence of an ant” is a dangerous combination.

    How often does he message his previous sex partners; what kind of messages?

    anita

    • This reply was modified 2 months ago by anita.
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