Help Needed regarding Relationship

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June 5, 2014 at 3:57 am #58140

Chiranjit
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Dear friends,
4 months back I have fall in love with a girl who is working in a company.She is good ,well educated and we have regular interaction with each other on phone sometimes I went to collect her from railway station as she is working outside the city.
Problem is often she stop texting me and not calling back. I feel hurt about it and I ask her many time but she denied or she have not seen my message or turn the topic to something else.
Few days back we have less text and I also have stop sending text or giving a call.I feel that if a relationship stand it should be nurture by both end. I only trying for this and the other person not bothering about it sound s crazy.

Please suggest what to do and how to deal with it.should moving on is the only suggestion or I try oncve again and should ask her about it.

Hope I get some feedback .

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Chiranjit Basu
India

June 5, 2014 at 4:16 am #58142

elet
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Dear Friend,
I don’t think she sees this relationship as you do. You say that you are in love with her. Love is a strong feeling. Love is something really big.
You are co-workers and see each other during work hours. Apart from the day at the train station you have not seen each other on a situation like a date or something like that. It seems to me that it is an unilateral thing. Therefore, there is no relationship.
Sorry, dear friend. Let me assure you that there are plenty of nice, good and well educated women available in India.
This one does not seem to be interested on you. You seem to be good, kind, caring and well educated yourself. Do not lose your time with this one. Join a volunteer group, yoga group, go for walks on parks, join a dating site, go to events, be proactive … You will find love when you least expect, until then enjoy yourself and your life.

June 5, 2014 at 4:35 am #58144

Inky
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You know, even if you were in a real relationship with her, some people just are not texters or are bad with the phone. And guess what, that’s OK! And it’s also OK to not collect her from the station! Maybe give this one a break this summer.

June 5, 2014 at 5:41 am #58147

Anonymous
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Hmm…maybe she’s like me in this matter. I am not much of a phone/text person. Its not that big a deal. Its has just been 4 months. This anxiety is normal when you really like someone and dont see them often. More importantly, are you guys in a relationship or dating?

June 6, 2014 at 9:29 am #58247

Kelly
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Why don’t you try asking her out on a date if you’re interested? If she says no, then you can move on, but from what you’ve written it doesn’t sound like you’ve let your feelings be known to her.
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