thefallenone,
Totally agree with Inky’s suggestion – ask yourself, “what makes me come alive?” “what makes my soul soar?” “what makes me joyful?” Following your joys is the easiest, most effective ways to figuring out your Soul’s Purpose!
TinyBuddha forums don’t seem to like links, but if you look at my profile, the link to my website is on there – and one of the 3 things I talk about is Purpose (the other two are Peace and Presence). Do take a look to see if you see some of the articles / resources resonate with you, and help you on your path.