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I  am having guilt-related familial issues with a guy I’m about to date

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  • November 13, 2024 at 5:00 pm #439362
    Lulu
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    I’m glad you bring that up Helcat, my aunt is actually in a multi racial relationship. Her fiancee is a white man who’s quite nice. However, this doesn’t stop my mother and aunt from looking down on white people occasionally.

    I’m so nervous about the moral implications of staying with him. I do care for him, and I know he cares for me. I just want to make a decision that will end with everyone happy, including myself.

    November 14, 2024 at 5:16 pm #439403
    Helcat
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    Hi Lulu

    I have faith that you can figure out the right thing for you to do. You are a good person who is just trying her best.

    I understand, these things happen and you are very loyal and just trying to do right by everyone.

    It is hard because systemic racism is widespread. It is difficult to trust a new person that they don’t know.

    It may be a difficult conversation with your family, but know that it isn’t your fault and are doing the right thing. Sometimes grief hits people in strange ways and it gets expressed in anger at something else. I know that they are also just trying to protect you from the bullying situation regarding the therapist too. It must be very worrying for them.

    Love and best wishes! ❤️🙏

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