Well, I am Vitor, I have 16 years and I’m from Brazil!
I am selfless a lot of the time, help and have compassion to everyone, and usually my days end up being all about helping people and not myself. I think that I have to change the world and to make the best that I can, because if I don’t someone will get hurt and they can be hurt really bad. But even tho this part of me feels satisfied, I feel miserable. Some religions says this is the key to go to somewhere better in my next life, I want to go there. But I get tired of spending all my life to help, to be a sort of superhero, and I just wanted to know if there is a reason not to feel guilty if I start to become a little bit more selfish.
Thanks in advance.
No need to worry and be a superhero to anyone, just do what makes you happy and if being selfish is what you need to do right now for personal space. Then that is okay. Focus on you right now and when you are ready, you can focus on other things.
Please quit your… self employment as helping others while neglecting yourself: this is a recipe for disaster. Please do take care of yourself first. Taking care of yourself first and foremost is your first responsibility, your job. Take it on!