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  • October 14, 2013 at 6:48 am #43750
    Nicole
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    I’m so in love with my boyfriend of 1 yr. but lately I haven’t felt his love for me. He doesn’t touch me as much anymore. I’m 30 and have 2 kids from previous relationships. Scott was my first boyfriend when I was 17, years have past and something brought us back together. I want us to stay strong and fight through this. He has now ignored me for nearly 2 days, all because I declined to give him a bj. He said he was too tired for sex but wanted a bj. I have let things go for 2 months and now because I took a stand I’m getting ignored. Will he get over it or will he come back to me. I love him and want him to love me and treat me with respect. What should I do. Please help

    October 14, 2013 at 9:16 am #43753
    Macintosh
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    What is it that you love about him? Do a list. Then do a list of the negative things about him.

    This guy right now is not respecting you at all. He’s acting like a real jerk! Ask yourself if he’s worth it…Do you want a man who is going to ignore you when he doesn’t get his way?

    October 16, 2013 at 9:36 pm #43900
    GraceInMotion
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    If you don’t want to lose him give him what he wants.

    If you don’t want to lose yourself and your self respect, you set boundaries and hold your ground as you have done.

    Trust me when I say that any other path than what you have already taken would only sour the relationship and could wind up in a sorrow deeper than you could ever realize.

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