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  • July 31, 2019 at 10:56 am #305913
    Anonymous
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    Dear amy:

    You can trust him to be your boyfriend because he pursued you after being apart for three months and he tells you that he loves you, but you can also trust him to continue to pursue a second girlfriend, because this is what he is doing.

    Do you agree?

    anita

     

    July 31, 2019 at 11:08 am #305919
    Peggy
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    Hi Amy,

    I’m going to make the assumption that you broke up first time round because he was taking other women out whilst he was with you.  If so, you can’t trust him because he isn’t behaving in a trustworthy manner.  He’s with you yet he invited another woman to a party instead of you.  It’s pretty simple.  If he loved you, he wouldn’t be treating you like this.  He has no respect for you.

    This feels off to you because it is off.  Trust your instincts.  You’ve found out what you wanted to know.  He hasn’t changed.  The question is “what are you going to do about it”.

    Peggy

    July 31, 2019 at 4:34 pm #305975
    Mark
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    amy,

    Always, always look at the behavior and not the words and especially the past history of the person.

    Make your decision based on that.  Plus examine why you want to get back together with him?  Look into your own background why you are so willing to be second choice.

    Mark

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