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  • May 29, 2014 at 8:31 am #57637
    Jara
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    like the title says, i feel like i have to change. i force myself to make change somewhere in me, to find relief somewhere, but i have no idea how to do it.

    May 30, 2014 at 11:46 pm #57761
    The Ruminant
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    Dear Jara,

    Forcing to make a change doesn’t sound that good. Why do you feel that you have to do that? Could there be a gentler way to be? Like if you have been carrying around something that is weighing you down or turning your back crooked, why not just let go of that proverbial baggage? Then carry on as your authentic self? There is no better feeling than to allow yourself to simply be who you are.

    May 31, 2014 at 5:20 am #57767
    Jara
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    hey guys, thanks for your answers. but it’s kinda complicated. i tried to relax, and it helped, but i still can’t do the things i like because im too obsessed making a change. it’s because i want to be there for people. my parents have been pushing me when i got my first boyfriend to do stuff with them and get outside the house. i did, but it wasn’t easy. because i wanted to be there for both and started to be egoistical. we broke up because i was so selfish, and then i started to ruin even more relationships with people i loved. people still are there for me, so the pressure is high to make a change.

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