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I still cant forget about her? Should i really move on this time?

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    Hi everyone

    So im going to write a post regarding a girl that i like (she’s 4 years younger than me, im 21 and she’s 17). If you see my previous threads about her you might get confused, because i keep confusing my decisions on her. So u can just read this thread.

    So basically i used to confess to her, but she rejected me but i keep contacting her stating that we are only friends, and therefore she texts me too because she thought we are only friends, whereas deep in my heart i keep hoping for her to like me that we keep in contact through texts.

    So she’s going to uni next year, her uni is on another city 45 minutes away from our city by boat. I tell her that if i go to her uni’s city later on when she’s in uni, i want to ask her to eat together with me.
    Then she suddenly texts me stating that, do i only regard her as friends or more? Why would you ask me to eat together with you?

    Then she said that i need to stop texting her daily, and that she knows that all this time that i like her but she keep replying because she like me too, but now she want me to regard her as only a friend who texts when we really need to texts, not texting daily like right now. Then she confesses that after she rejected me that time, and we keep texting each other since 2017-2020… then at 2018 she realize that she like me and keep thinking about me, but nothing more (like she doesnt want a relationship) because her parents forbid her, and she said that she isnt ready for a relationship and that in uni she want to focus on her studies and get a good job after she graduate, and she doesnt want me to wait for her to be ready.

    I said that we can text each other everyday like this, but she said she cant… she feels burden and she doesnt want anyone to wait for her.
    Then i ask her that if later in the future, like a few more years.. i come back to you again, will you accept me… she said she cant answer that and she said that i shouldnt predict on her feelings…

    Then i ask her that do u really like me now or are u just saying this to get rid of me? She then said that her feelings for me right now are genuine. But she doesnt want me to keep contacting her… and we should just be a normal friend who texts when we really need something from each other.

    Then i asked, so u want me now to chase another person? She said she wont answer that

    Then she said, okay take care of yourself, starting now on we are just friends…. who contact when we really need each other like how normal friend supposed to be… and not keep texting daily.

    Im so heart broken right now, as i just found out that she has feelings for me… but she wants me to back off like this. It really hurts….. i really dont know what should i do with my feelings right now for her… should i move on? Or i shouldnt?
    I have a really hard time forgetting about her, i like her for 5 years. I genuinely love her, and i always thought that she is the one

    Felix

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