I am an engineer i finished my degree a year back and working now. I live in India where religion and cast will always be a barrier to love. And it is considered as greatest sin a boy and a girl could do. There is a girl in my neighborhood of different cast and same religion. Her parents are very close and good friends of mine. Off coarse even the girl. Once when i was doing my third year of my degree she proposed me . She was doing her final class of her school. Even though i knew her dad won’t accept us cause of cast i thought i could console him so i accepted her love after some days. She loved me more than i did. We were doing good . Her parents were very much strict with her watching her activities. Even also we would meet me daily and talk without their knowledge . Days passed . I finished my degree and finished her school and joined same branch of engineering what i did and she is doing her third year now where she has one more year to finish her degree. We had relationship of all kind physical mental everything . We used to hang out twice or thrice in every month . Her parents would allow her out often neither most of parents in India. Three and a half years passed. About 6 months back on 1st of Feb when i was in my office suddenly she told me that we have to end everything because her father has found about our relationship. She would never tell me what happened or what her father told about us. From that day on wards she never talks to me properly. After a long time of begging her asking what was the proper reason she said that her father told that he would not accept me and she had promised her father that she would not love me any more. Even when her father knew about our relation he never showed me that he knew. He was so casual with me. She was the only one avoiding me. At first i thought that she was in an relationship with someone else. But i found that she was not in love with anyone else .Once she said to me that she was in love love with someone else . i could not bare that day when she said so cried like hell. I told my sister what has happened and i cried . My sister when she asked to her that was she in love with anyone else she said that she loves me lot and her parents are compelling her to marry a relative of hers. I always asked her to come back to me even now i would never let her go. I do not want want her to let her go . A month back on 15 of last month her father came me suddenly came to and said “ What has happened to you ? Why are you doing like this ? i believed you soo much and you did like this. Your family is a good friend of mine and what would they think?” and he walked away. I found that she had told her dad that i was the one asking her to stay with me . From that day on her parents me and her we have never seen each other or even talked. They don’t allow her to use her phone or allow her to go out alone. Or i could not find out When she comes out i could not follow her all times. I finish my office i come home soon and try to see her and talk to her. But she doesn’t even make a little try to see me or talk to me . Even when i see her out she doesn’t look at me when talking . She just ignores me like seeing some one. Does she never understand she is hurting. I gave up everything i begged her i pleaded her to be with me . But she doesn’t even lifts her head to see me . I tried to talk with her in all possible ways i could through friends and everything i could but i failed . She doesn’t respond . i see her each and everyday and try to contact her even now and try to make her understand how much i need her with me. I couldn’t just let her walk away . i love her sooo much . She was the one who started this . Am really depressed now and couldn’t do anything properly. Even though i try to engage my self with family and friends i don’t do anything properly . i tried to go to a lot of counselling but couldn’t find a solution to find her back or leave her..i love her. I could talk to my parents or even her parents but how will i when she doesn’t even support me a little . How could someone react like this after so much has happened. I am really struggling. The truth is i don’t want to let her go.. Can i have a way to get her back with me…