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    mallllh
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    So my boyfriend has been kinda lazy and unmotivated lately, and we haven't been in the best position. He went out with the guys last night and has some drinks. And while he was out he had changed his profile picture from a picture of us to the one he had before ours.. from like 2015. And I can't help but think he did that because he is losing feelings or something is wrong. Only because we took a short break a few months ago and I changed my profile picture to the one I had before. And I asked him about it and he lied and said he did it a while ago? When it literally says he did it 8 hours ago. And told me he's going back to bed. Am I over thinking or could there be something wrong?

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    Sofia
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    malh,

     

    I think it is very important to have a deep conversation with your boyfriend. remember that a healthy relationship is based on trust and communication, maybe remind him of that too.

    ask yourself this questions: why are you with each other?, why do you love him/he loves you?, do you really want a relationship that is based on lies and games?

    be truthful to each other and remind yourselves that love is much more than profile pictures, laziness or problems. love is wanting to be with someone to share your opinions, views, to create a future together, have good times, understand what's important to one another and constantly communicate and trust.

    you both have to find peace in yourselves so you can solve your problems.

    maybe he is falling out of love, maybe not. maybe you are too?

    if any of you are, it's important to remember it is okay. love yourself first, only then you can love someone else.

    remember why you love each other, remember yourselves it is important to talk and to trust

    hope everything goes well

     

    much love,

    S

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