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  • February 11, 2016 at 8:04 pm #95866
    Anonymous
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    Dear stone:

    I am glad you managed to re-post this. Can you tell me how young you are? Early 20s I think…? A bit more about your relationship with your partner, the father of your children? What was it like at 16? How old were you when you had your first child? Also, what is your daily life like? Greater-family relationships?

    This is a serious situation you are in, very sad for you and of course the well being of two young children is a serious, valid concern. I don’t suppose you looked for psychotherapy? Is that a possibility?

    In any case, i would like to look into the situation with you however long it takes here, until you find a way to make your life make sense! So, waiting for answers to the questions above that I think are important for me to understand.

    anita

    February 12, 2016 at 8:54 am #95890
    Inky
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    Hi stone,

    Don’t beat yourself up for the online emotional affair. It’s sounds like it is/was the only bright light in your life that kept you going! It’s not like you are a mere bored housewife. Not that I condone it. But I’ve been there!

    It is probably depression. With the young kids, usually the complaint is they drive you crazy. But it’s not. Not feeling it for your partner COULD be your body saying “We’re done here”. “We’re done” meaning no more kids! But you also seem to be filled with so much “I’ve got to do something” vs. ennui vs. hopelessness. Dollars to donuts it’s Depression!

    See a doctor if you haven’t been this year,

    Inky

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