Hi Matt,

Thanks for your reply. For full story, please refer http://tinybuddha.com/topic/a-divorce-and-a-breakup-with-a-lesbian/

Yes I was lost and I took emotional support, may be I should have taken from family and not fallen for her.

But now that she knows that I don’t share the same feelings as a lesbian; I prefer to part ways to do justice to both. (I was not comfortable playing the role of a guy, things that generally a guy does in a relation. Initially it was different; she would play the role of a guy, gradually she started expecting me as well to do that part, and somewhere I felt, it’s not me, it’s not that I don’t take care of her, but from a woman it’s different than a guy does). And everything would boil down to ‘mutual’. Then I realized may be it’s not me, I have more traits of a straight person rather than a lesbian.

But she is behaving as if she doesn’t know anything. She wants to know if I’m fine, how am I, how are my days, how is my family. It’s the same thing she was doing earlier, follow me and still have another life outside. It’s more like manipulation for me; because she knows I was weak.

I have blocked her on messages and calls; what she doesn’t understand to be sending mails and still following. It simply disturbs my peace of mind. May be she wants this.