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  • September 10, 2016 at 4:10 pm #114847
    Vlad
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    How to keep respecting yourself when you know for a fact that you look like a loser for mostly everyone?

    I am almost 24 old with shitty degree, was fired from my last job, will starting another one for very small salary. Live with my mom and not planning to ever move out. There is no hope that i will be employed with better job conditions in future. Wont ever be able to afford a lot of prestigious means of consumption like travelling and cars and real estate. I wanted to create a family somewhere down the road when i was more naive, but now i realize that its cruel to cause a kid to live in poverty and, besides, there is no good girl who would think that i can be a father or a husband because i am not “successful man”.

    I can say some positive things about myself, but this information alone is more than enough to make majority of people on this planet to despise me. There are some guys out there who are either “losers” like me or downshifters, but most of humanity is too swapped in traditional mindset. Knowing this, its very hard to trying to function in society and sustaining good self-esteem.

    September 10, 2016 at 5:05 pm #114850
    Livelovelifeeleni HappyMotivation, Advice, Outreach & LifeCoaching
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    Hi beautiful person. You need to control and change your thinking homey! You are a beautiful person. Many girls and people like me appreciate humans who work hard and have compassion and kindness for everyone. You deserbe to be happy and successful. However you can be successful just by being happy. When a mistake or obstacle happens.. dont let it define you, its all about what what you do AFTERZ A STRUGGLE! You got fired, but its ok because this will lead you to finding a BETTER job that you actually enjoy and deserve. My father doesnt have big degree but guess what? He isnhappy with his purpose taking care of kids and helping his friends everyday and he has a family plays music alot for fun and stay atnhome dad and he is so happy, you can be too. Do not let these temporar5 things make you feel hopeless about the future. Your dreams can come true its all about hard work believing in yourself not let anything stop you and keep going. Its not naive to want to have it all. But you can be the most happy just following your passion and a good decent paying job and the fact you get to help people everyday will add alot of joy in your life, you do not need fast car big house lotsnof money or high position at a job to be happy, for basic income a job and a place to live yes, but listen, you are NOT A LOSER, many people will appreciate you, whoever stops liking you and thinks u arent good enough just becausenyou got fired, they are not goodnfor your lifr anyways right.? You deserve people and family that care and love the great person that you are! Never give up hope. Many people who are living their dream have failed and got back up again alot. you live, you grow you learn. Inspire others by doing the same. Take charge of this amazing gift of life you been given and keep going♡ HUMANITY IS BEAUTIFUL BE THE CHANGE KEEP HELPING AND LIVINGNLIFE

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