Last night I decided to spend New Years at my bff’s house. For the past few weeks, when I have come over he has made little comments that are considered rude. When I noticed that he had a thing against fat people I asked him what his deal was (a few weeks ago) he said, lets just say, I’d rather have someone skinny than someone who needs gastric bypass.” So about a week ago I was laying my friends couch and her husband came up to me with their baby and said sat her on me and told her to “lay on this whale”. Last night they were watching animal planet and there was a walrus on tv and he goes (in front of his kids), who does this remind you of?? Later I heard his four year old make a comment while watching rhinos on tv say ” look at that rhino, its so big and fat and I just want to punch it!”…and I thought…hmmm I wonder where she learned that from. It sad to mold kids to think in a disturbing manner. So then later on in the night My bff and I were talking about dating, she asked her husband if he had any friends he could introduce to me. He said, no I dont think so. She is not their type. They have never dated anyone like her. My friend asked, what does that mean? He goes, well lets just say that she is not just obese she is morbidly obese and could probably use a bariatric wheelchair (for someone who is too overweight to walk) and that on a scale of 1 to 10 I am a 4. And all of the girls has dated in the past were at a minimum of an 8. And I would make his friends miserable. Yes he said all of this and I never provoked him at all. I left just before midnight, angry and pissed and told him that he was disgusting. Oh yea, I asked him why does he have a problem with my weight and he said , “I wouldnt have anything to say if you wouldnt bring your obesity around me”. PS I suffer from Binge Eating Disorder and PTSD. I have never been disrespected so badly in my life. And these are personal issues that I have struggled with since the 5th grade. And that was even before I was overweight. I used to starve myself and take diet pills in middle school. And high school I always tried to hide my curves. In college I become depressed with anxiety and binged. Moments like these are what triggers a binge. Like a drug addict feeling triggered and wanting a hit. He just messed up our entire relationship. And him and her sister dont talk either. Moments that hit me to the core like this makes me not want to try in life.