Dear Hareesh:

Nothing you can do but accept it. Simply, nothing you can do.
anita

Dear Hareesh:

What is “mm k”? How are you? Tell me more than three letters (above) or a few words. There is much more to Hareesh that needs expressing…

anita

Dear Hareesh:

Feeling good is good. Everyone want to feel good. Some will do anything to feel good quickly, no matter the consequences. I hope you have a long term plan aimed at feeling good long term…?

anita

Dear Hareesh:

No. No destiny. There are billions of people on this earth, alive, as I type this. No destiny for any. Lots of random events for each individuals. People helping other people; people hurting other people, the consequences of this, global events, local events, family events… the weather, the stock market, drugs. So much going on, lots of random events, lots of actions and consequences, lots of interactions between people and … very, very complex. No destiny.

anita

Dear Hareesh:

You wrote that it seems to you that life handed you the short end of the stick in every area. Who is Life? Life is not a person or a god that is handing people lives or destinies. There is a lot of random things going on. People randomly get born into this or that family, social/ economical/ political situation not of one’s choosing. Then things happen because of people choices all over the world. Some people in your family made and make choices that affect you very much and people in governments and in financial corporations, people you never met, they make choices that affect you.

There is no Life or Destiny, God or Universe… no such person that hands out lives and destinies. There is no such entity that decides to give one person a good life because they are worthy, and another person- a bad life because they are the “scum of the world.”

You find yourself in a situation, right this moment as you are reading these words, you are in a situation caused by thousands of random factors and … here you are. Now, what to do? The best you can with what you have, with the situation you are in.

You are worthy, valuable, important regardless of the situation you are in. The situation does not define you. Make the best of it today. Nothing grandiose, just better than you did a moment ago, yesterday.

anita

Dear Hareesh:

You are not wasting my time and please post again and again. I want you to post and I want to answer you. I am sorry you feel hate for yourself, that is a great shame, for a person to hate oneself. And I know there is something good about you, something as good as anyone. Nobody in the whole world more worthy and valuable than you. There are richer people, famous people… but no one more worthy than you are. I suppose you don’t know it (You don’t… really?) but I know it is true.

This is why I want you to post and post and why I will reply every single time.

anita