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March 24, 2016 at 7:38 am #99989AnonymousGuest
Dear Hareesh:
You woke up today. You can look around you and see things, you can hear things, you can read what I am typing here. You can express yourself in words, you can tell me/ others about who you are, what you think, what you feel. All these things are good things. The good things are inside of you, so let them out. Express yourself, more than a sentence here and there. Tell more.
The good things are inside of you. Let them out: share with me.
anita
March 25, 2016 at 6:39 am #100073HareeshParticipantDoes everything will be alright or does the life remains the same
March 25, 2016 at 8:27 am #100074AnonymousGuestDear Hareesh:
Life does not remain the same. What we think and believe about life and about ourselves often remains the same throughout life. For example people who believe they are worthless, often believe that throughout much or all of their lives.
Life changes, some things remain the same: the weather changes but the sun is always there (for as long as life has been on this planet)- the sun is always there, even at night time (we just don’t see it). So the sun is always there and the weather changes.
About what people believe – better change what we believe that is not true, and keep the beliefs that are true.
anita
March 29, 2016 at 9:42 am #100390HareeshParticipantI think i have no chance in this world
March 29, 2016 at 12:36 pm #100400AnonymousGuestDear Hareesh;
If you are sure that you have no chance, you will not try. If you think that maybe you have a small chance, maybe you will try. There must be things that you do during the day that you aim at and succeed.
anita
April 2, 2016 at 9:32 am #100705HareeshParticipantNobody knows how i feel.Everything getting harder day by day
April 2, 2016 at 9:37 am #100707AnonymousGuestDear Hareesh:
If nobody knows how you feel, make me that somebody who does know how you feel and tell me: how do you feel? What exactly is getting harder every day?
Waiting for you to tell me:
anita
April 2, 2016 at 10:06 am #100709HareeshParticipantlife,my life getting harder
April 2, 2016 at 10:57 am #100711AnonymousGuestDear Hareesh:
Tell me more: how is your life getting harder, in what ways is your life getting harder?
What is happening now in your life/
anita
June 30, 2016 at 1:06 am #108556HareeshParticipantI Feel Like A Complete Waste Of A Human Life.Useless and have no talent
June 30, 2016 at 8:07 am #108593AnonymousGuestDear Hareesh:
Feeling like it doesn’t make it so. You feel like a waste of a human life and at the same time that you feel that, you are not a waste. You are just as valuable of a human life as anyone out there.
anita
June 30, 2016 at 9:52 am #108606HareeshParticipantBut i dont feel like that way..everyone says that i am useless
June 30, 2016 at 10:03 am #108608AnonymousGuestDear Hareesh:
I am saying that you are useful, worthy.
anita
July 2, 2016 at 9:20 pm #108753TavnParticipantDear Hareesh,
I think things can seem harder when you’re young, as you are at 21, though you may not feel like you’re very young (I didn’t at your age). Young people are experiencing a lot of things for the first time, and those things seem more intense, and more difficult if they’re unpleasant, because of the novelty.
But as you grow older and learn more about the world and yourself, it does get easier to handle the difficult times. You learn what you need and you learn how to give it to yourself.
No one can cope with hard times for you. But that also means no one can take that ability away from you. When I was in my early 20s, I struggled much more with depression and anxiety than I do now. I felt worthless, too. Sometimes I had to take it on faith that there were better days in my future. If I could tell my younger self something, it would be the same thing I will tell you: Trust that it will be better. Trust that you deserve happiness, because you do.
-Tabby
July 6, 2016 at 6:29 am #108939HareeshParticipantI have so many dreams..But i am scared bcz..I failed so many times in the past when following my dreams..I never got the things that i so much wanted..After reading all your’s replys i feel much good now..I want to do so much good things and i want to fullfil my dreamss..But i only see closed doors..Do you think i got what it takes to fullfill my dreams..Am i special..As i look back i only see failures..i want to change that
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