Dear aaishah,
My heart breaks while reading your post I’m sorry you are going threw this. I have been in a similar position as you and I feel for you because you have got some tough decisions to make. No one deserves to be treated the way your spouse has treated you. And now because you have a baby and another on the way you have to think about your safety and and your baby first. I would say your spouse is only using your baby as bait to hold on to the power of controlling you. Please dont give into his threats and nasty remarks stay strong and do what is best for you and your baby not him. If he cared so much about you and your child he would have never disrespected you by kicking you out. Please see this as an opportunity to save yourself. I know it’s hard to cut ties in the beginning but trust me when I say it is worth it. You have to leave him by himself for him to realize that he needs to change his behavior. Your baby especially since she’s a girl does not need to grow up seeing her daddy abuse her mommy, she needs to see a daddy that loves and supports you. If your are worried about her drifting from you when she grows the only thing I can say is be honest and open with her from the start as soon as she starts asking questions let her know. She will respect you more for telling her the truth. Keep her close. Speaking from experience its Something I wish my mom did with me. Stay strong and don’t give in you deserve the best. God bless.