Often people are wrong when they think they know what is best for other people. Reads like you know what is best for you: less hours, not a bigger role. It is not weird at all to know better than others what you prefer, what you want, what is better for you.
Maybe it is not that you have “No goals/dreams”, maybe it is that you don't have others' goals and dreams for you. Societal convention is to make more money, accumulate more things, drive a bigger car, consume and consume. We who do not follow the convention aren't weird, I don't think.