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  • This topic has 24 replies, 3 voices, and was last updated 8 years ago by Marc.
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  • November 10, 2016 at 6:44 pm #120086
    Marc
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    I’ve learned that I need a balance between wallowing in feelings and ignoring them.

    November 11, 2016 at 8:12 am #120120
    Marc
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    By the way, I think I’m learning that recovery is a step-by-step thing.

    November 13, 2016 at 7:21 am #120252
    Marc
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    Reclaim Your Authentic Self: 4 Steps to Recover from Bullying and Abuse

    “If you feel like you can’t let go of the feeling, ask yourself, ‘Why? What do I need to look at? What is holding me back from letting go?’ A past event or experience will often surface if you ask with a feeling of curiosity and let yourself be open to any answer that comes. You may need to go back to Step 2 if this is the case.”

    What is holding me back from letting go? I think it’s still feeling unsafe, like I’m a fugitive running away from the people in my past.

    November 13, 2016 at 8:27 am #120256
    Nina Sakura
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    Aja, the past actions of others can’t be changed and we can only choose after a point to stop believing that the past will control everything about our life, including our ability to face life and our worth as a person.

    November 16, 2016 at 3:13 am #120467
    Marc
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    As for why I don’t feel safe, it’s because I’m no longer in the safe cocoon I spent my childhood in and I’ve realized how mean so many people are, that everyone you meet could end up being mean.

    November 17, 2016 at 8:13 am #120572
    Marc
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    “Remember the feelings, remember the day
    My stone heart was breaking
    My love ran away
    This moments I knew I would be someone else
    My love turned around and I fell”

    November 17, 2016 at 8:13 am #120573
    Marc
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    *moment

    November 17, 2016 at 10:44 am #120592
    Nina Sakura
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    Dear Marc

    It seems you have missed my messages. I will not comment further until you acknowledge my message.

    Regards,
    Nina

    November 17, 2016 at 5:49 pm #120608
    Marc
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    Inbox messages?

    November 17, 2016 at 6:23 pm #120610
    Marc
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    Never mind, I did notice them.

    • This reply was modified 8 years ago by Marc.
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