I have been involved with someone for a couple of months and she is a lovely person. As time goes on, like in all relationships, personalities come out. Although the loveliness of her remains I have witnessed a side that is concerning. I have never seen someone get so mad that their face turned as red as a tomatoe. She was very angry on day and came towards me, standing over me and instructing me I was not going to do a certain behavior again. I can respect the fact that I can do annoying things at times but I asked her to please sit down, lower her voice and talk to me in a respectful manner. It took a while but she did do two of those actions. I also find her jokes some what hurtful at times and somewhat insulting.

I have always thought that love is kind and why would you want to hurt someone. I understand sometimes we(self included) that we say things that are not always mindful of the other person but I think it is important to talk about it. I have done this and everyday I make her cry. I was once told I am too sensitive but I have never met anyone who reacts with anger so quickly or takes it to heart. I guess I question if there is something wrong with me. It would seem the last couple of relationships I have been in have been so strange.

Thoughts?:)

R