I agree with Matt that you shouldn’t feel ashamed and shouldn’t repress your past, but I also have a little different opinion on the rest of the issue. Kenny, what you have to ask yourself is, what is telling her going to accomplish and who is it for? If you only feel the need to tell her because its something you need to get off of your chest, then I would maybe reassess why it is eating at you so much that you have to get it out. I’m not saying you should hide things, and as Matt said if it becomes an issue then definitely deal with it openly and honestly, but also you need to know whether it is worth bringing doubt into a situation when she doesn’t have any. If she has shown concern for you being gay in the past or has felt insecure about it, then it is an issue that needs to be handled. But if she obviously has faith in your sexuality and love with her, why rock the boat over something that isn’t even going to cause an issue in the future? I am all in support of honesty, but make sure it is something that you need to do, and know why its important for you to tell her. Otherwise i don’t really see a need to make her worry over something that isn’t a problem. Be honest and do what you need to do, but make sure you explore the deeper reasons for your concern in the first place. Just my advice from the little information you gave! Best of luck!

Dave
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