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    anita
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    So good to read back from you, Debbie!

    I am using my phone so I can’t look up Raynaud’s although I would like to. (my computer 🖥 was destroyed by Bogart the beagle and my inattentiveness).

    Being surrounded by 🐕 🐕 🐕 🐕 🐕 sounds lovely to me. Being close to one beagle at night is nice, but not warm enough, particularly because he lies on the blankets so I am not covered enough.

    No snow here this year, only a week of frost (it’s been the warmest winter I’ve known here).

    Yes, Bogart is very warm right now, lying by the pellet stove. He’s adorable!!!

    Glad you have electricity… Where’s you sixth dog..?

    🐕 👩 Anita

    #454663
    Debbie
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    Raynaud’s is a condition sometimes caused by other issues or in my case just occurs on its own where blood vessels in the hands and feet spasm and restrict blood flow causing coldness, numbness and color changes. I was diagnosed in my early 20s. Oh so long ago! Lol

    Bogart was trying to ingest all the knowledge of the Internet when he attacked your computer.

    My 6th dog is my biggest. Lexie is a lab/pit mix with severe anxiety. She came from a horrible situation in SE Illinois where a woman with good intentions had amassed over 150 dogs that were all outside in pens and crates. She was older and ended up in a home and her family didn’t want anything to do with the animals. The county had to step in and the rescue I was volunteering with took two loads of dogs. Lexie was in the last group to get out…all bigger, black dogs who were the worst as far as lack of socialization. She came to me in April 2016. It was a long road but with me she’s a normal dog, very loving. But she takes anxiety meds, doesn’t like anyone else and doesn’t go anywhere but in the back yard and the vet once a year which is an ordeal. She is a sweetheart and I love her. She’s older now and my hope is she has a gentle ending.

    #454666
    anita
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    Dear Debbie:

    LOL, it didn’t cross my mind that Bogart was on an Internet Knowledge Pursuit (IKP)😀.

    Reads like (Mayo Clinic), you suffer from Primary Raynaud’s which occurs on its own and often begins between the ages of 15 and 30.

    I noticed an alarming cold sensitivity in my fingers a winter or two ago- I thought that my fingers were freezing to death when holding something cold or when the temp outside was very cold. I suppose it’s age-related: blood vessels becoming less responsive, the tiny arteries in the fingers stiffening over time: they don’t widen (dilate) as easily to bring warm blood to the fingertips.

    With age (I am reading), overall circulation to the arms and legs decreases, and even a mild drop in blood flow can make cold exposure feel extreme. Also, skin gets thinner= less insulating layer. And nerves can become more sensitive or less precise with age (which explains why my fingers felt like they were dying, even though they were not).

    But age-related circulation changes differ from Raynaud’s in that they usually don’t cause dramatic color changes (white/blue/red) or numbness, and they are not triggered by mild cold or stress.

    Thank you, Debbie, for this opportunity to understand things better.

    In regard to Lexie, the similarities between dog psychology and human psychology amaze me. So, I am reading that puppies have a developmental window (roughly 1-3 months) where they learn what people are, what normal household life looks like, how to handle new people and places and how to trust, and Lexie missed that window of opportunity.

    When dogs don’t get early socialization- new people feel threatening, new places feel overwhelming, and their default response becomes avoidance or fear. This explains why she’s loving with her person (“It was a long road but with me she’s a normal dog, very loving”) but fearful of everyone else.

    Also, chronic stress= living in overcrowded, chaotic conditions creates learned helplessness, heightened sensitivity to noise, movement, and unpredictability, and difficulty regulating emotions (my own reactions to growing up with chronic stress).

    The most beautiful part of her story is that despite everything- she trusts you; she knows that you are safe, and she can now be loving, stable, and content at home.

    You are making a positive difference, Debbie, big time 🙏 🎉 👏

    🤍 Anita

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