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  • September 25, 2016 at 8:14 pm #116259
    Anonymous
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    Dear Barbara:

    As I read your post, it seemed to me that you are lost in the dark in regard to dating.

    What I would do if I was you would be to send the friend request of B. Then wait for a response.
    This is what you do when you are in the dark, you take one little step and you wait before the next step.

    If you take my advice and send him a friend request (step one), then wait for his response. If his response is to accept your request, please post again and I will be glad to help you with step two.

    anita

    September 25, 2016 at 10:00 pm #116268
    Brandi
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    Do what Anita suggested. I also will suggest that you realize that sex doesn’t equal love, or eeven come close. Hanging out and having funwith the opposite sex doesn’t have to include sex right away. If a guy is genuingly interested in you, he will keep coming back. If he gets the prize without any effort other than being nice or “hanging out” with you, then he doesn’t have to get to know you to get what he wants…you gave it for free.
    Talk to your therapist about that part, or you’ll be confused and hurt continually in your life. I have seen this unhealthy behavior over & over again. There’s an underlying reason why you involve yourself in these behaviors, if you don’t already know what it it, maybe your therapist can help you wth this issue. Good luck sweety.

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