I want to write an apology letter to my ex girlfriend. I would go through the whole story but you’ll either read half and say I’m an asshole or just read the end of it. The only people that say I’m an extremely nice person read the whole thing. Basically a lot of stuff happened and she thought I cheated on her when I didn’t. She blocked my phone and Facebook. I called lawyers and stuff because I was scared that her mom might try to do something against me like call the cops and try to get something. The lawyer I called said I can send a letter in January but if I think I have bad luck there’s like an 80% chance that nothing bad could happen but there’s a possibility of one mean cop. So he said if I send it in like May then hopefully I’ll be completely fine to. I saw her fb from a friend and she’s still posting some bad things and a few good . Meaning more say I was mean but there is a little that say like I can’t stop loving him. So my one question is when should I send it? And my other question is when I do is it illegal at all or relationship wise should I put my name on the envelope because if her mom sees it she might throw it out before it gets to her or it might be an unpleasant surprise if I dont though