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April 20, 2016 at 9:29 am #102344
z. cancerfreeParticipantokay i did get this far… not sure about posting, today is my first day… my main concern and interest is about QQQ how one (71yo m) may “become” a buddhist while living alone at home, having no relatives or significant other(s) in life QQQ… i have been devouring buddhist books and online research for about 3+ years, have a number of favorite writers, teachers, monks, nuns…
i live “in the country” in beautiful northeast oklahoma… the closest “zen” centers would be a couple of hours away in tulsa, OK or about 45min or so to the fayetteville, AR area… driving can be a painful experience at times, so distance and the issue of night driving are factors…
ditto, since receiving Buddhist teachings in the alone state… such things as meditation and postures are problematic due to medical and health which include pain centers in damaged spine and joints like shoulders and hips…
my dream is to see some and much more buddhist teachings and practice to the elderly who have many of the questions such as those above mentioned…
also, i love to communicate and write and such… so any people contacts are greatly appreciated!
unsure what happens after i hit enter here… so i am open to anyone responding… thank you so muchly…
Namaste!
“z”
green country oklahoma (northeast corner)April 20, 2016 at 10:57 am #102349
AnonymousGuestDear zcancerfree:
I am not a Buddhist. I do believe in the Buddhist principles as I am familiar with in the context of psychotherapy. The most basic one is the principle of being awake, of peeling off distortions and seeing reality as it is, its minimal reality.
Until and if you find other ways of communicating with others, you are welcome to communicate here! Any thoughts, feelings, challenges…
Take care of yourself and my empathy for your damaged spine and joints pain…
anita
April 21, 2016 at 5:33 am #102375
InkyParticipantHi zcancerfree,
You can start a blog! “Buddhist in NE Oklahoma”. That will help you practice your writing and get an online community going! Tiny Buddha is great, but many of us aren’t Buddhists LOL!
Also, you can host a MeetUp for those in the area.
Once you find a likely person, or think of an open friend, once a month you can go to the centers farther away. You drive there and your friend drives back at night.
Good Luck!
Inky
April 22, 2016 at 2:47 pm #102484
VesperParticipantzcancerfree,
Hello from sunny Southern California. Like Anita and Inky, I am not a Buddhist, nor am I one of the more prolific contributors on this site, but as you were open to responses, I thought I’d introduce myself and say welcome and happy Friday! I hope you will join in the conversations here. I look forward to your contributions and wisdom. 🙂
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