I’ve just concluded that we’re very likely not compatible for one another just so that it’s easier to conclude and there’s no finger pointing and attacking each other’s character / personality. I’m trying to find peace in that.

“Actually, referring to the title of your thread, it’d cause anyone to be stressed and anxious, maybe walking on eggshells, afraid of the next time you would say something imperfectly, something that would rub her the wrong way.” Yes you are absolutely correct.

Funnily enough she said the same thing about me that I made her feel like she had to walk on eggshells which made her anxious all the time. I genuinely have been trying to figure out what I did. And to be honest with you the biggest fight that we had was back in Jan and that’s the only thing i can recall that would trigger her to walk on eggshells? And for what it’s worth I took full accountability and apologized for those actions. The thing it was never easy for her to see past things and forgive and forget.

I don’t blame her though, I think she just never felt emotionally safe with me after our conflict and I think the relationship ran its course.

And to be clear I was never physically abusive or verbally abusive. And i’m quite positive in the last 4 months of being together, I was completely submissive and was always apologizing for things. Now that I say this out loud, that’s super embarrassing and I wish I didn’t do that. I think i should have walked away because she has every right to find flaws in me but if that’s the case then we’re not meant for each other.