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December 5, 2025 at 5:30 am #452603
anitaParticipantDear Q: I’m glad that you’re starting to genuinely feel a lot better. You are a good, kind person who deserves to feel good and not to suffer. Please post again anytime, I enjoy π our conversations.
π€ Anita
December 18, 2025 at 9:57 am #453082
qParticipantHi Anita,
How are you?
December 18, 2025 at 10:03 am #453084
anitaParticipantHi Q:
I am travelling today (using my phone). Tired but okay. How are you? (I won’t be able to type much until I get back home this evening (it’s morning here)
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December 18, 2025 at 10:09 am #453085
qParticipantThat’s cool! Where are you travelling to and with whom! I hope you have a great time!!
December 18, 2025 at 10:22 am #453087
anitaParticipantI am traveling to meet a beagle
And likely take it home, be a dog πDecember 18, 2025 at 10:23 am #453088
anitaParticipantBe a dog mom I meant lol
December 18, 2025 at 10:42 am #453090
qParticipantAww that’s cute, that sounds like a new chapter in your life!! Im jealous, I’d love to get a dog as well but ill have to wait a few more years when things are more aligned. Beagles are adorable.
December 18, 2025 at 11:17 am #453094
anitaParticipantTHANK YOUU, Q. I am an hour away from seeing the beagle, and if I make it through the rainstorm on the highways back home, i”d love to tell you about the meeting and this new chapter.
December 18, 2025 at 2:19 pm #453102
anitaParticipantDear Q:
Got the beagle but him being so tstressed and π he vomited in the car, a lot and I didn’t anticipate it so didn’t bring towels to clean it ot protect the car
He is now napping and seems calm. At least 2 more hours driving with windows closed and vomit smell.But I like him. Seems like a gentle soul.
π€ Anita
December 18, 2025 at 6:48 pm #453108
qParticipantHello Anita,
Aww I hope he’s feeling better now. Congratulations on this new chapter with him!
Q
December 18, 2025 at 7:39 pm #453114
qParticipantHi Anita,
I would like to share something with you. I think the universe works in funny / strange ways. At some point, I was genuinely over and done and was clearly moving on from my ex. I did not think about her for a few days, I felt much lighter and my mind felt free. I won’t go into details but somehow, we coincidentally met each other and caught up, shared a meal together. And somehow we were back in contact for a while. I naively took this as a sign or fate if you will. We stayed in contact and I tried to make plans with her but I can tell she’s not really interested. I’m pretty sure she likes the attention i’m gave her and she’s pretty hot/cold. Anyway, I’ve tried to make plans but they get brushed aside and I’m starting to regret my actions and feel like i’m getting pranked by the universe for reopening the wound again. Everything was going OK then she suddenly stopped responding.
I feel like I did not learn from my lesson and made the same mistake. But looking back I think was being kind and warm but I think it just came off as being too available.
December 18, 2025 at 7:43 pm #453115
anitaParticipantHello dear Q:
Yes, he’s lying on his new dog bed right now.. still anxious.. but he’s making progress. I just wish I could bathe him sooner than later. He’s too anxious to be going through a bath at this point!
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December 19, 2025 at 6:58 pm #453150
qParticipantGosh. I hope the both of you are well settled now! It gets better π
December 19, 2025 at 7:45 pm #453154
anitaParticipantDear Q:
It did get better. He’s more affectionate and interactive indoors.. needs to allow me to take him on walks outdoors. I don’t want to always stay indoors. I would love to update you about a walk outdoors and another dream come true: to take him to the local taproom where people bring their dogs to, a dog friendly place. I’d love to see him positively interact with other dogs π
Right now his adorable self is comfortably lying by the fire.
π€ Anita
December 23, 2025 at 7:11 am #453241
anitaParticipantDear Q: I wanted to wish you and your wife a MERRY CHRISTMAS β¨π βοΈβππππβ¨π€Άβ¨
May you have a calm holiday and a better year ahead!
π€ Anita
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