Tired of being in love with my guy best friend

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October 5, 2019 at 9:50 am #316227

Anonymous
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You are welcome, Vesper. Post again anytime.

anita

October 8, 2019 at 4:48 am #316683

Vesper
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Hi Peggy,

Thank you so much for your response. That helps a lot. It’s okay I also couldn’t access this forum for these past days.

“Do you think you are able to go back to a place where you cease to have romantic feelings for your friend?…” No, I don’t think I can, not if I still in contacts with him.

I’m still not sure on how to tell him. So for now, I’m distancing myself from him. Does that make me a bad friend?

Best,
Pipin

October 8, 2019 at 5:53 am #316689

Peggy
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Hi Vesper,

Your friend began the distancing through moving away and then cutting contact following disagreements. From what you have said, he is the one that began this process and you are having to respond accordingly. The fact that you have feelings for him has distracted you from the reality of the situation.

If he contacts you in the future to meet up when he’s home, then you can choose whether or not to do this. I think the nature of your friendship will have changed so in answer to your question, you are no more a bad friend than he is.

I hope this puts your mind at rest.

Peggy

October 13, 2019 at 8:02 am #317575

Vesper
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Hi Peggy,

Thanks for the reply.
“From what you have said, he is the one that began this process and you are having to respond accordingly…” Yes, I think you’re right. I’ve been spending my time focusing on my well-being lately. I still think about him a lot, but I feel little bit better now. and I hope it’s gonna be much better with time.
Thanks for helping me!

Vesper

October 13, 2019 at 11:38 pm #317677

Peggy
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Hi Vesper,

I’m glad you are able to see things more clearly now.

Good Luck for the future.

Peggy
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