Hi everybody.

I´m here because i need some insight of people who are not my friends and family and can be completely honest with me.

So I´ve dated this guy for month and half. We had perfect chemistry, we understood each other without saying a word. We were just on the same page. I wasn´t the one who initiated the contact all the time. He was. He wrote me for hours and I was a little bit distant from the beginning because I couldn´t trust men (bad experiences). But his attitude, actions and tenderness changed my mind and I fell in love with him quickly.

One day I found out that he´s out of the previous relationship for two months only (his girlfriend broke up with him because she cheated on him, they were together for 1 year and planned to move together to different city…). I was afraid that I´m probably a rebound so two weeks ago we have talked about it and he admitted that he´s over it.

Last Friday (week ago) we spent together, had a great time. He was so caring and tender and sweet to me. We kissed and I couldn´t wait till Monday. We planned to spend whole day on the trip. But on Sunday he didn´t write me a single thing (he always did) and then on Monday he contacted me via Facebook at the afternnon! that he´s probably ill.
I was pretty upset but I only wrote that he should inform me earlier.

So on Tuesday of radio silence I was kind of desperate and I apologized for being annoying. Then he wrote me that he is not sure if I´m ready for serious relationship (?) I didn´t realize it might be only his way to change the topic and I wrote him a long description of why i think I´m ready for the relationship and what exactly I´m looking for in my future partner.

He wrote me that he´s grateful for this message and then- day of silence again. :/

On Wednesday he wrote me that he is probably not ready for a serious relationship right now. That there are many things (healthy issues, family problem, he´s not over the ex yet) and that he think it would be better for us. He wrote me that he wants to continue with our meeting and being friends. What is unbelievable to me- he couldn´t pretend all of it.

I was able to answer two days after that I respect it. And we´ll maybe meet someday or not…No response…

I´m on NO contact right now. I wonder if he will contact me during this period, forget me or if he left me via Facebook messages for good because I wasn´t that attractive to him (I´m exactly his type).

Please- give me some advices what do do. Am I naive if I think I made so good impression during short time we were together that he might get back to me?

I´m really broken. I thought this guy- this guy will one day marry me.